Today's Faith-Based Leader Needs Christian Leadership
Coaching
Like anyone else, individuals and executives come for Christian leadership
coaching because they want something to be different.
Over the years, 80% - 95% of my
business has been working with Christian owners, professionals,
executives, leaders and pastors.
Christian Leadership Coaching is for people who want
to be coached versus need to be coached. They want to break
through their often self-imposed thinking and limits. In their own
words they want:
• "To get clear about the Lord’s direction for my
career"
• "To get away from the edge of burnout"
• "I work very late in the office and I can’t
seem to catch up"
• "Leadership skill development"
• "I need assistance in relating to the board
and bringing them into the decision making process"
• "The director’s inability to lead the ministry
in a way that my contribution is maximized"
• "I need help in making a smooth transition of
leadership"
• "Spend consistent time with the Lord"
• "Regain my passion and desire for the things
God has called me to do"
• "Growth spiritually"
Why Gary?
I often advise my clients to go into a meeting and “show them your
heart”. Say what is really there and see what happens.
In order to know who I am, how I work and why I want
to work with you you need to know my heart.
I don’t know you yet. I'm looking forward to it, and until that
happens I want you to know about me before you decide to call me.
It will help you make a clear decision for the
benefit of coaching.
It wasn’t long after God had brought me into a relationship with
Himself in 1971 that I realized my thinking had changed and it was
my new life purpose to serve Him. It didn’t matter whether I was
a butcher, baker or candlestick maker; I wanted my life to be
purposeful and available to the Master for His direction. God
had graciously brought my then fiancee Alice back to Himself and
Alice felt the same.
After all these years we are still
on mission. Our life continues to be an adventure.
To say that Christian Leadership Coaching is my job
would be understated. Coaching is an assignment, given by
God, where He uses me to make a difference in the lives of others.
1 Corinthians 3:5 says that the “Lord has assigned
to each his task.” My key assignment at this
period of my life is to provide the very best coaching available
today to Christian leaders.
I passionately believe that everyone has the potential to do
better. We are endowed by the Creator to change and grow and
be the best we can be at whatever He gives us to do. Christians
especially ought to understand this and act on it.
And God for His own good reasons
has journeyed me thorough the twists and turns of life and leadership
... learning, changing, growing, to outfit and prepare me as a Christian
who excels at coaching other Christians who hold important positions
of leadership wherever God has placed them.
I have been amazed at the people I have got to work with. I have
often thought, “Who am I to be here for such a time as this in this
person’s life or in the history of this organization or business?”
Individuals, executives or leadership from organizations
like:
Christian Camping International
Evangelical Fellowship of Canada
Food for the Hungry
AWANA Canada
AWANA Ukraine
Christian Coaches Network
Future Vision Ministries
Willow Creek Canada
Canadian Legal Fellowship
Fellowship of Evangelical Baptists
… and more … Not to
mention all the individual self-employed business people, church
pastors, leaders and boards, executives, professionals, directors,
managers and star sales executives … in business, nonprofit,
government and ministry.
Because of being in the forefront of Christian Leadership
Coaching, I've been privileged to present at conferences, do on-site
coaching, and work with leadership and coach key decision makers.
There is nothing about me that stands out except
that by God’s grace, together we do some great
work. They gain big insights and take responsibility
to change and go farther than they ever thought possible. We often
see the fingerprint of God all over it.
I make my living be being
a paid Coach. I fulfil my mission by moving
you and your goals forward. I really live if
you and your goals reflect the purposes of a heavenly Father.
To me ... that ... is what Christian Leadership Coaching
is all about.
What Makes Gary's Coaching Christian?
I believe noted author Gary Collins captured some critical
distinctives and insights in his book, “Christian Coaching,
c. 2001, published by Navpress. I heartily recommed reading it and
in what follows quote extensively from it.
What makes my coaching Christian then?
One - “Christian coaches use many of the same
techniques that are used by their secular counterparts. But Christian
coaching is unique in a number of ways. First and foremost is the
biblical worldview that the Christian
coach brings to the relationship.”
“Like everyone else, we seek to become aware of our passions, life
purposes, inner strengths, and visions for the future. But Christians
realize that these are God-given and that we find ultimate fulfillment
only when we’re living in accordance with God’s plans. For the Christian
coaches, God – not human ingenuity
is at the core of their beings, and God is the guide for all coaching
work.”
Two – “If you’re a Christian, seeking to walk
in the footsteps of Jesus, you’ll approach every aspect of your
life from this perspective. Your commitment to
Christ will impact your marriage, parenting, lifestyle, values,
spending, time management, vocation, and the perspectives you bring
to coaching. What we believe influences who we are and
that in turn impacts everything we do.”
Three – “Coaches seek to avoid imposing their
own agendas on persons being coached. We rarely advise, and we never
tell people what they should do. Instead, we encourage people to
set their own goals and directions, crystallize their own visions,
and formulate their own mission statements and plans of action.
But we can’t ignore the clear and final directive
of Jesus to his followers: make disciples. As we have seen,
coaching is not discipleship, but we want the people we coach to
ultimately become fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ.
The previous sentence will be challenged by many
professional coaches who believe that our role is to be neutral.
But no coach can be completely neutral. Even if we strive
to keep our values and perspectives tightly hidden, Christian
coaches cheer inside when others move in directions that are consistent
with biblical teaching and we’re disappointed when they
move away.”
Four – “Although the Christian coach is committed to learning
and applying the established techniques of coaching, he or she also
prays regularly for the person being coached
and is not reluctant to discuss spiritual issues, especially
in working with Christians who share worldviews and values similar
to those of the coach.
Christian values aren’t attached to coaching like
a caboose hooked to the end of a train. Christian values permeate
the life of the Christian coach and flow into coaching, even
as we respect the uniqueness or individualities of persons being
coached and fully affirm their right to build lives on values that
we might consider not to be Christian.”
What Does Coaching Have to do with Leadership?
In “Leadership By the Book:Tools to Transform Your
Workplace” (Waterbrook/Morrow 1999), Ken Blanchard, Bill Hybels,
and Phil Dodge tell us directly that “Coaching is a form of servant
leadership that helps people accomplish their goals.”
Gary Collins further says, “Today, good coaching
is the key element in producing good leaders. In changing times,
to be a good leader you must be a good coach. And to be a good coach,
you must recognize that coaching is a significant
and increasingly emerging form of leadership and leadership training…
Coaching is a special kind of relationship. It’s a
partnership with a purpose, marked
by honesty, respect, and mutual goals. Good coaches exhibit the
servant leadership that Jesus demonstrated in his life and talked
about in Matthew 20:20-28.
Great leaders do not lord their leadership over people,
exercise controlling authority, or jockey to get positions of prominence.
Great leaders, instead, are great servers. The same is true of
great coaches…”
Get Clarity and Take Action
Again, Gary Collins states, “At its core, coaching has two principles,
raising awareness and stimulating responsibility. Persons being
coached usually realize that something is missing from their lives
but they often don’t know what that is. If they can’t identify what
is creating their sense of dissatisfaction, they won’t experience
much progress.
One of the coach’s first jobs then is to help the
people they coach grasp this awareness. If we know what is controlling
or bothering us, we can do something about it. But if we don’t have
that awareness, we have no control.
However, people can have all the insights and
clarity in the world, yet not experience any change because they
won’t take responsibility for doing something about their situation.
Effective Christian leadership
coaching won’t let this go on for long. They know that
good coaching is concentrated on getting greater awareness and then
stimulating focused action.” (Gary Collins) Again I encourage you
to read Gary's book for the full discussion of this topic.
Working with Gary Wood
92% of my clients are Christians and looked to
for leadership. They are practical and often hard nosed
about what needs to change. More of what they want to work on during
our Christian Leadership Coaching calls, in their own words:
• "My continual lateness when I am to be at meetings
with people"
• "I want to run. I don’t know how to take care
of myself."
• "Too many speaking engagements"
• "Conflict management"
• "Strained relationships"
• "Compassion fatigue"
• "Upgrade my decision making process"
• "Sitting on too many boards and committees"
• "Self management"
I want you to be a visionary and effective leader.
I don’t know where you are running into challenges. Maybe it is
about problems that seem insurmountable. Maybe it is about possibilities
that seem a whole lot bigger than you.
I think we can do something together.
I’ll promise to be the best Coach I can be if you’ll
promise to get as clear as you can about yourself and your situation
and take intentional action to move forward.
Coaching could radically change
your life, your business, your ministry or your community.
It will all be up to you, but Christian leadership coaching could
accelerate the process.
I invite you to take the next step on YOUR journey
today. Please call for Christian leadership coaching.
Gary Wood

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